Posts by BIG D

at the risk of outing myself and my hubby, i just had to run this by everyone to see if it was just me.... last night i attended a function that the women of hubby's hell put together to honor their boe.

there was much food and they put the guys up on a stage and played "name that elder" and then interviewed each one.

the mc of the event gave deep commentary regarding his feelings of each of the elders.. i thought the elders weren't special...that they were just regular joes with more responsibility...certainly not guys that should be lauded for doing what they have been given the "priviledge" of doing.... am i wrong?.

BIG D

yes very odd, what happened to humble servants?

big d

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Huh?

by harleau in

my sister says she's a lesbian.

we are in the truth.

she wants me to meet her girl friend?

BIG D

YOUNG LADY, YOU ARE NOT SURE!!

therefore take time and make good decisions, that is all anyone can do, alot of witnesses lose their entire family, every day, because they would not conform to wtbs will, like hitler did, like the crusades did. there are many good people in the truth, there are many good people here too, research things, and dont be easily swayed by anyone, us or the jw.

the most important thing in life is family, i was in jw for 35 years, i know of what i speak.

big d

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Huh?

by harleau in

my sister says she's a lesbian.

we are in the truth.

she wants me to meet her girl friend?

BIG D

and iam not difficult!!!!!!!!!!!!

big d

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Huh?

by harleau in

my sister says she's a lesbian.

we are in the truth.

she wants me to meet her girl friend?

BIG D

that is the dilema you now have to address, if you get babtized, you can be dfd for seeing her?

is that what you would let happen, your family split apart?

make sure of what you want, honey

big d, and i am a guy send me some pics, just joking

big d

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Well I finally resigned as an elder - Phew.

by The Scotsman in

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thats right, about 2 weeks ago i confronted the po and told him i just could not do it anymore.. i genuinely have been under alot of pressure recently with my work so i used this as the pitch.

he was not happy but i received little resistance, which suited me.

i handed him my letter last week before i went on holiday.. i have to say it is a great weight off my shoulders, no book study, meetings for ministry, talks, public talks etc etc.. i will no doubt be the subject of local congregation gossip!

BIG D

I remember once, i had 2 congeration bkstudies,yes 2, 1 public talks a month, one in town , one out,magazines, hall cleaning assignment, sound, service meeting parts, 2nd school, and the co got on to me , good ole brother punko, because i said i couldnt handle another, they wanted to give me something else, he said those that do more are assigned more,i had just had a baby and ran my own business, and i was treated badly for a while and the co, met with me and told me i was being weak.

i remember feeling that at the time, and said, where was the greatest commandment now, that we display love for one another, i should be pated on the back , instead of being read romans 1'11, like i needed help.

i started noticing then many things werent as they seemed, but was too young to put them all together.

big d